The idea of living with someone you’ve never met sounds scary. The fact that you’ll probably have to do it for years can make the matters even worse. In order to get along with your housemates at the college, you need to do the following things.

5 Tips on Getting Along with Flatmates

Get to know them

The first thing you need to do when you arrive at your new student accommodation is introducing yourself to your housemates. If you ignore them at the beginning preoccupied with unpacking, you’ll create an impression of arrogance, and your housemates will have a bad first impression. Eventually try to learn everyone’s personalities, what they like and what their pet peeves are. This will help to avoid any misunderstandings or potential conflicts because it’s easy to upset someone if you don’t know them well.

Respect their space

Living in a shared house or apartment often means your private space is very limited. However, if you want to find a quiet place for yourself, remember to give it to others too. Always knock when entering someone’s room, put on headphones when you’re listening to music, don’t take others’ belongings without asking and agree on bringing other people in.


If there is something that you’d like to change, discuss the matter with your housemates. They can’t read your mind so they probably won’t even be aware of the problem that is bothering you. If you talk in a peaceful and respectful way, you’ll avoid escalating conflicts and will be able to nip them in the bud. Communication is also great for getting to know other people and eventually becoming friends.

Be flexible

Stubbornness is good in some cases, but if you want to get along with other people, you need to learn to sometimes step aside and accept a compromise. Good terms with your flatmates are just like any other type of relationships – they require working towards the ultimate result. You might be annoyed by small things your housemate does but you’re not perfect yourself, and there is something that annoys them too. If you set your stubbornness aside, you’ll have a much better relationship with others.

Accept the fact that everyone is different

This advice is similar to the previous one, but the main thing you need to remember is that everyone is a personality and everyone is different. Before you meet your flatmates, you might have some expectations only to be disappointed later. However, it doesn’t mean that they can’t be a great person. The fact that you and your flatmates like different stuff and have different outlooks means that you can have a dynamic relationship in which each person will bring something new. As long as you accept other people, you’ll be surprised with how many things you can learn from them.